its bad business practices to burn your bridges when you know you are gonna need a favor later. its unprofessional to demand favors of people you have slandered and/or pissed off. if you are guilty then dont be surprised if you dont get what you want and are blacklisted.
i had so much fun getting away and being around a bunch of cool people. meeting new friends and reconnecting with old friends. the moment i get home is when the shit storm came down on me. its like my mother is a whole other person…like shes pissed that i had a good time. first off she stole my stereo that was a gift from a friend and said that it was collateral for giving birth to me and letting me stay in the house. then when i asked for it back she calls me a dirty whore and tells me i owe her $4,000 because she said i ruined her couch when i had to sleep on it for a few weeks while i recovered from my surgery 6 years ago. idk if its because of these diet shots shes been taking lately but shes not the same anymore. she didnt even care that i was sick and she stressed me out so much i thought i was gonna faint. i stayed in the house and quit school to take care of her when she got her knees replaced and she doesnt even appreciate what i have given up just to try and be a good daughter. ive done all i can for her and i think that now its time for me to move on and find a job while someday being able to finish school.
i get no sleep in my house sometimes and its driving me crazy! i just want one day of beautiful sleep where i can dream about mountains of chocolate and cupcakes. why does this chick (sis) have to wake up at 4am and watch cartoons?!! my face is starting to look like ive been possessed…such dark circles under my eyes. im getting older so i need to get more sleep before i start to age faster than i should.
The easiest fastest way to stop being controlling is to practice compassion. It’s the most powerful tool one can use to turn off that desire to change others. The feeling of distress and pity for the suffering or misfortune of another forces judgement to run the other way. If you are truly compassionate, you know you are not controlling. Because you can not be both.